The First Men's Breakfast
By Charles Rush
April 25, 1999
John 21:
begin the sermon this week, with two very sober realities in the
back of our collective consciences. The first is the report that over
the past 4 weeks, authorities have reported that somewhere between
40,000 and 100,000 young men in Kosovo are missing. They may not have
been found yet but we know where a whole bunch of them are. They are
lying a few inches beneath freshly turned soil in the middle of an
overgrown field.
The second sober reality is the whole community in Littleton,
grieving the terrible tragedy of 15 teenagers shot to death in their
high school. The lost future, the random violence, the sheer
arbitrariness, the pain.
I mention them together because it they frame some reference. Take
our national attention, the grief that we feel for this town and the
families there, multiply it by 2500 and you have the minimal scope of
the grief felt by mothers in Kosovo. It will not be easily assuaged.
But, I want to lift up Littleton today for another reason. I
happened to be on the phone this week with a friend of mine in North
Carolina. This is what he said "You know what strikes me is that these
shootings never seem to take place in Newark or Detroit. The reporters
seem to go out of their way to point out that these communities are
good, lily white, middle class, educated. It's where you move to
raise your kids and enjoy the good life. All these reporters are just
standing around sort of dumbfounded as to how this could happen here in
Pleasantville."
I said "what do you make of that".
"Probably a couple of things", he said. "First, just the simple
juxtaposition between people who really have life threatening issues
all around them and those who almost seem to create them when they
don't exist. Is there something about us that unconsciously
craves crisis?"
"Second, I just don't understand the blank look of these
reporters that there could be trouble here in Pleasantville. It's
almost like they are saying ‘under the conditions of
Pleasantville, these things simply can't happen.' It's
almost like they think that we can eradicate evil with a spacious
enough Mall and the smell of fresh baked cookies. One of the reasons,
I'm still a Christian, is that we have a profound appreciation of
the fact that human evil is instilled deeply in our souls. Poverty and
ignorance might well fan that evil. But we will never eradicate it in
the best of circumstances. Even the good citizens of Pleasantville are
evil in some dimension of their being."
These reporters have no understanding of sin.
Our text this morning is profound in its observations about sin
being at the heart of the human situation. Thus, reconciliation is at
the heart of our spiritual situation.
You have to read the gospel of John, especially, like a novel. The
author makes his theological points through the use of symbolism in the
narrative. Here we can discern a couple of things.
My colleague, Mike Usey, says that this part of the narrative reads
like a post-Modern movie. Here you have the disciples, who have lived
with Jesus for several years. They have just been through an intense
week, in his suffering and death. They have had some kind of profound
experience of Jesus post-mortem in the resurrection. After all that,
you know, what do the disciples do? "I don't know" says Peter "I
think I'll go fishing." It's like the audience after seeing
Pulp Fiction.
This very intense film, and people just get up. Two minutes later, you
hear "anybody for a cappucino?"
We in the church are like this pretty much every week. We go to
church, hear a great sermon or a very moving piece of music that lifts
us right our of our doldrums. Whether or not the sermon is great, we
hear a profound message about the Kingdom of God breaking out all
around us. Then we go home, wake up on Monday do the same old drill
all over again.
The disciples have been through this intense time. They almost
appear to have that vaguely bored, somewhat confused, lights are on but
nobody is home gaze that is characteristically 90's.
It is dawn, early dawn. They have been up all night, fishing in
the dark. They look out and see a lone guy on the beach around a
fire. Now, the last time a fire was present was just before Jesus
died. That fire was also burning in the night. Then it was burning at
the end of the night, just before the dawn. Around that fire stood a
bunch of the disciples and assorted other strangers that had just seen
Jesus convicted by Pilate before a great throng.
Around that fire, someone recognized Peter and asked him if he was
a disciple of Jesus, who was to die. Peter denied him. Peter denied
him again. The third time, around the third hour, the darkest part of
the night, Peter cursed Jesus' name and said he never knew him.
Night is a symbol of confusion, lostness, betrayal, in the gospel
of John. It is a good symbol. When I was in college, I was home on
break. It was about this same hour. I drove the car into the drive
and cut the lights. I slowly turned the doorknob to the front door and
crept in, sliding off my shoes at the front door. I petted the dog and
tip toed into the kitchen to the refrigerator. The coast was clear.
The lights flicked on and I jumped. My mother had been standing there
all along. She said to me "Son, where have you been?"
I said "Oh, I've just been down at the beach with some friends
and my girlfriend just you know hanging out."
She took my face in her hands for just a moment and she said "Son,
nothing good goes on at 3 in the morning." She was right.
Here we are at another fire. This is not the fire of the mob.
They are all gone. This is not the betrayal and sin that happens in
the middle of the night. This is the morning. This is the hope that
signals the coming of a new day. This is the hope that tomorrow things
will be different sober, humble, honest.
Jesus does a strange thing. He asks them if they have caught any
fish and they answer him "No". Then Jesus tells them to cast their
nets on the other side. It is an odd request. What does Jesus know
about fishing that fishermen don't know? He appears to have some
kind of divine knowledge that ordinary humans don't have? That
may be one of John's points, but he has another simpler one to
make also.
The disciples obey. They don't entirely understand the
meaning of this request. It sounds either arbitrary or down right
wrong in its approach to the problem of no fish. This side of the boat
is only a few feet from that side. What difference could a few feet
make? But they do it anyway.
And here is the point. Just after they obey Jesus, someone
recognizes him. It is symbolic. I wouldn't want to make a
formula out of this observation without a bunch of qualification. But,
John's point is that you start doing things and later you begin to
understand and discern things. We begin taking the Lord's Supper,
before we understand it, and it focuses us to see God's activity
in the world. We become the presence of God in the world, through
compassion and that opens our eyes to recognize God's action in
the world. If that sounds tautological, it is. But, it might be true
nevertheless.
Let's come back to the central point. Jesus appears to have
had one central mission on his mind in making this appearance to the
disciples. 3 times he forgives Peter, matching the 3 times that Peter
denied him. Somewhere between number 2 and number 3, it must have
dawned on Peter what was happening to him.
Think about that for just a moment in all of its humanity. How
often this happens. A loved one dies, let's say that it is a
parent or a child. Think about these parents for a moment, whose kids
led that rampage out in Littleton, killing all of their classmates
before turning the gun on themselves. We can fairly well presume that
there must have been a good deal of distance and alienation between the
parents and the boys in the weeks and months preceeding this horrible
end. And then this end. What an awful way to end a relationship, full
of guilt and shame and disappointment. I bet that those parents would
trade all their worldly possessions to be able to be reconciled with
their sons, to forgive and be forgiven, to work through some of that
alienation to the point where they could live with themselves again.
As a minister, I do a lot of funerals. I've stood in quite a
few grave yards waiting for a burial to begin. Invariably while I
wait, there is someone in the distance at a grave talking. Surely, a
lot of those conversations are plaintive "I sure miss you today". But
I'm also sure that some of them are people saying to the dead what
they could not say to the living. They are asking for forgiveness.
They are forgiving stuff that they did not get around to, or stuff that
they could not get around to. Sometimes they have been carrying this
load with them for quite a long while and they need to let it go, so
that they can move on.
Peter saw the Lord and we are told that he jumped overboard and
swam to the shore. And we would too, much of the time. If we could
just finish up some important stuff that we left unfinished. If we
could just be reconciled that would be enough. That would be all that
we really need.
Jesus comes back and what is it that he does. He forgives. He
reconciles. He empowers the disciples to carry on without him. This
is pretty important. This is the central message of what the Christ
came to tell us about.
It is an important word for us to hear as a congregation just now
since we are actively thinking through the question of what kind of
church we want to become for gay men and lesbians.
In the last few weeks, listening to people dialogue on this
subject, I've been struck by how difficult it is for us to think
morally. We actually work our lives out so that we have to do very
little moral thinking. We get our lives into settled patterns that
follow predictable paths. We know where everything is, we know where
we are headed, so there is not much to consider on a moral level.
Moral questions are always posed in the midst of uncertainty. When
you absolutely know what is right and wrong, you just do it without
thinking. That is simply what Aristotle used to call praxis. In the
words of the Nike commercial ‘Just do it.'
Moral questions are posed when we don't know what is right or
wrong. Having to think on that level fills us with emotion and
anxiety. Suppose I asked you right now what we should do in Kosovo and
also asked you to articulate the moral principle that your position
entails? Suppose I gave you only 2 minutes to formulate your answer?
Suppose I asked you to stand in front of the congregation and explain
your position in less than 3 minutes so that it had to be simple and
straightforward? Most of us would be filled with terror.
It is not simply the time factor. It is not simply the public
speaking. It is having to make up our minds in the midst of
uncertainty, knowing that we are not all that informed, having to
expose ourselves to our peers. I used to do this as an exercise at
Rutgers. Half of my students would say just "I don't know" for
which they got an F. Then you had some people who could give great
arguments but you felt like they could be arguing about anything, and
yes, almost all of them ended up in law school.
It is hard for us to make up our mind, when we cannot be fully sure
of what we are doing. It is hard for us to make a commitment when all
of the facts are not in. That is why we get so emotional, so full of
anxiety.
That is why moral questions are inherently divisive. We can't
agree in the context of ambiguity. People passionately disagreed about
what we should have done in the Vietnam war. At the time, it was not
so easy to know. Look back, you wonder why it seemed so intense at the
time.
People passionately disagreed about Civil Rights, about integration
and whether it would work. You look back now on this subject there is
pretty much unanimous consensus that Civil Rights are good and
integration is an important social goal but 35 years ago, it
wasn't all that clear.
People in the church passionately disagreed about divorce 30 years
ago. Especially if your Minister was divorced. Nowadays, there is no
moral stigma to it at all. Sadness, yes, but no stigma of shame.
People in the church passionately disagreed about women in
ministry. We had churches that were going to leave the denomination if
women were ordained. Nowadays, it is not an issue much at all on a
moral level. In fact, the majority of people going to many seminaries
these days are women. They just never get voted to be Senior Minister,
a incongruity that is likely to get more pronounced.
People still passionately disagree over abortion. Leave aside the
social question of whether it should be legal, all you have to do is
pose a concrete question, and you can get quite an argument. "Michele
is 25, she and Robert have been hooked up for 7 months, etc., etc.,
etc.,
And in every one of these cases, there came a moment in the moral
discussions where people felt so passionately about the issue that they
threatened to leave the church, and some of them actually did.
And in every one of these cases, there also came a time in the
church- and here I speak of the denominations as a whole- where people
realized that they needed to be reconciled. They realized that this
one issue was not the sum total of what defined their relationship to
the church. They realized that the people that disagreed with them
were not the enemy. Boneheads perhaps. But they were also nice people
and good Congregationalists after all. So we had services of healing
because at the end of the day, we all realized that what draws us
together, what keeps us together, is not that we all agree on every
moral issue. No this is where we have been set to serve, our community
is where we get our support and support others, it is where we worship
and share our lives together. In the end, it is more important
that we are reconciled than it is that we are right.
And we come back to that point periodically because that was what
Jesus was principally about. Jesus had moral convictions. Jesus lived
out of his commitments. But the primary thing he was about was being
reconciled to people who had betrayed him, who had hurt him, who had
disappointed him. And we know that is what we should be about too.
So as we enter the next few weeks of discussion and decision, I
hope we can keep this before us. I hope we can live our convictions
with integrity and that we can also demonstrate respect for those who
differ with us. I hope that we can have as a goal that we can be
reconciled with each other, come what may. We are that important to
each other.
Amen.
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