Expansive People of Grace
By Charles Rush
June 14, 2009
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is is a true story. The famous painter Salvador Dali had a very serious eye ailment that threatened his sight. He went to see the leading specialist in Spain who treated his eye successfully and saved Dali's vision. Dali was overwhelmingly grateful and promised the physician that he would do a painting in his honor, which he did. It was a huge canvas, several yards by several yards. The main part of the painting was a huge eye with the cornea and pupil, massive in size. In the reflection of the eye, Dali had painted the reflection of the doctor, examining his eye, with the light in his hand, his physicians gear on.
The painter, as
you probably know, had quite an ego. He presented this massive painting to the
physician, unveiled it. The physician was taken aback at this huge picture of
Dali's eye and this tiny reflection of the physician in the corner of the eye.
The physician walked from side to side, not saying much. Finally, Dali prompted
him saying, ‘What are you thinking?' The physician swept his hands broadly at
the sheer size of the eye and detail of the painting and said, “Actually,
just now, I'm thinking just now that I'm glad I'm not a proctologist.”
Salvador Dali
had a way of getting Dali in the middle of everything, even his gratitude, as
only he could. Genuine gratitude, however, is quite another matter.
A colleague of mine told me about
shared with me an experience from his early years as a pastor, visiting two
different women in the hospital who were both dying. One of them was in her
70's, a relatively prosperous woman, extensively traveled, educated, seemingly influential in her community.
The other woman
was in her late 30's, three young children that had taken most of her time in
the past decade, also educated, of modest means, with a devoted husband. They
both went to the same large church in Texas.
The
seventy-year-old was acerbic, sarcastic, and angry. Often when her relatives
would come to visit her, she would comment to the Minister after they left how
these relatives had been a disappointment to her, usually accompanied with a
story that ended with some rolling of the eyes. She was bitter that she had
contracted this disease, irritated with all the procedures and chemotherapy
that she had to go through, and short with her physicians that they hadn't
figured out a cure. Week after week, this went on. Family members were
solicited to try to change her attitude to no avail. Everyone just shrugged
their shoulders as they left her room, saying, ‘that's Martha'. My colleague
said that family members visited, but it was short, perfunctory, and
subconsciously they just stayed away. Only her youngest granddaughter could
bring a smile, a baby. She was prickly all the way to the end.
The thirty year
old was on the same floor. She went through an equally elaborate ordeal that
was ineffective and she was very weak at the end of her life. My colleague said
he that what struck him about her was her eyes. Even when she was tired, she
was capable of radiating love and grace with her eyes. And her touch- there was
something warm and tender about her touch. At some point in her treatment, the
doctors told there that there was no more treatment left and shortly afterward
she began a series of short conversations, blessing people really, though
without ever saying so, telling them they were good and they would be strong
and productive, not to worry about her. It was very difficult but very moving.
And her
graciousness was infectious to all those around her as well. My friend said he
was talking to her husband right at the time of her death, asking him if he was
frustrated and angry, maybe at God, for her relatively brief life and the
prospect of raising children alone. The husband said he had a lot of emotions,
to be sure, but then he added, “I never deserved to have her in the first
place. She lit up my life from the first day I met her. I'm just grateful for
the time we had together.”
How is it, my
friend asked, that two people from the same place, who attend the same church,
can have such different spiritual dispositions? Furthermore, since we are all a
mixture of both of these personalities, how can we cultivate that spiritual
disposition of grace? How can we live out of a sense of gratitude and grace?
In our text this
morning, Jesus walks by 10 people that are sick with leprosy, and he heals all
ten. Only one returns to give thanks and he is a Samaritan, not even a full
Jew. Presumably, Luke thinks the others were not grateful because they were
presumptuous about their entitlement as Jews. Jesus singles out this one
Samaritan that returned, and he blesses him. In effect, he says, “Live out of
the grace you have known, be grateful and gracious to those around you.” Return
to that disposition for spiritual health. Jesus doesn't tell him to do
anything religious: he doesn't have to say 10 hail
Mary's, or go on a pilgrimage to the Holy Land, or spend his life in celibacy,
devoted to prayer. He just blesses him, “you faith has made you whole (or
healthy)”. Live out of the blessing you have known. Be grateful and gracious.
It is something
we have to return to because there are a lot of other forces that we
could live from, many that seem to dominate us and control us, if we aren't
watching them. Fear, anxiety, desire for certain stuff,
control, anger, sexual libido. They are all out there, vying to be the
central motivator of our ego, all successfully in gaining control from time to
time.
Most of us allow
our egos to run amok like a dog I heard about that somehow wandered onto the
field of a Kansas City Royals baseball game. None of the players or the umpires
could catch the dog, so they tried shooing the dog off the field. The dog went
this way and that, running to and fro. The players yelled at him, the umpires
hollered at him but the dog only became thoroughly confused, eventually
plopping himself down on third base where he refused to move.A
sports reporter, covering the story wrote, “The problem was that the dog
could hear no dominant voice.”[i]
Most of us are like that too, if we are not spiritually intentional and return
our focus to what is important, we hear no dominant voice.
And they are
powerful voices too. Right now, a whole bunch of us are hearing the voice of fear
around us. Some of us are looking for work in an environment that is not
generally very promising, and if you are in certain fields, your whole field is
tanking. But a whole bunch of us are living in a background environment of fear
in our companies, a serious change of disposition from just a couple years ago.
Just a couple years ago top executives were encouraging people with bold
imaginative plans, praising those who dared to take risks. How quickly that
environment has reversed itself. With fear around us, people are hiding from
responsibility, blaming others, covering their backsides just to keep their
jobs. Fear permeates our background environment and it is not creative.
And anger.
The characteristic New York disposition… I remember reading Susan Lee's piece years
ago for the Wall Street Journal about visiting the construction workers,
police officers, and National Guard that were cleaning up the site at the World
Trade Center. “When pressed”, she writes, “most people described their thoughts
in terms of personal feelings, using adjectives like ‘sickened' or ‘sad', but
they said they felt good to be helping out. Half admitted to crying each day
after they left the site, but they shrugged as they said it (That is a New York
thing Susan); while the other half said they had trouble sleeping because of
their anger.”[ii] Anger
can be like that, just creep up, wend it's way into
all facets of our life and dominate us.
And control.
Iranians suffered political reversals in the Iraqi elections, then in the
elections in Lebanon, and they just couldn't take that loss of control in their
own elections. The result was a contested election and riots in the streets on
the biggest scale in decades. I suppose the Mullah's of Iran win this weeks award for those most in need of control. The power
control is great and once under it's grip, the shadow
of it's influence is long.
All these dispositions vie with each
other to pilot our egos. No, we have to return our gaze to the disposition of
the blessings in our lives around us, to find the gracious spirit of living. It
is all around us, but we have to return to it as the dominant voice, the others
being so loud in our lives.
Sometimes you
have to bring to mind that sense of blessing that you have known. My oldest
daughter had been studying in France. I kept talking about going to see her but
I didn't think I could afford it, didn't have the time, but it was a dream I
had envisioned almost twenty years ago. Things came together to make it
affordable… so
I went and met her in Paris. My wife couldn't go, wanted me to go instead,
didn't want to fly together right now, etc.. So I went
alone. I had thought of this trip so many years ago, I had almost forgotten the
dream, and suddenly I was living it.
I met my
daughter and we walked straight to the Paris Opera House to see if there were
any possible tickets to anything. This was part of the dream too. Alas, there
were none. This was not right, so we walked outside dejected to see the scalper
dude. Two tickets left to the ballet Giselle that night, top tier box,
back row- so what. We got dressed and went. As fate would have it, the people
in the two rows in front of us didn't show for the curtain, so we got to scoot
down to the rail. As the lights went down, my daughter is in front of me, I was
watching her watch the ballet, thinking back to when she was a baby.
She had colic as
a newborn and cried a lot at night. We had two children within one year, so we
took turns walking her at night (and I am not suggesting it was 50/50… it was
not). I was learning Greek at the time. I would hold her over my shoulder,
burping her, with the Greek grammar book in my other hand, memorizing Greek
paradigms and Greek vocabulary: pistis, Basileia tou Theou,
dikaiosyne, skubala.
Sometimes, if she was still cranky,
we would bundle up and walk in the snow. Her little eyes, wide awake in the
cold. She was the cutest baby in the world. I loved that child.
And I dreamed
that one day, we would go some place far away, some place without diapers,
without colic, without Greek homework and student poverty, some place like Paris-
yes, Paris. I'm sitting there watching her watch the ballet, so elegant, so
grown up, so interesting to talk to… and she even knows French. What a blessing
to live to see this day. What a blessing to watch her bloom before my eyes. We
are surrounded by blessing. We have been graced. It is only one voice
out of many voices that command our attention, but Jesus suggests that the
spiritual challenge is to return to it and allow it to be the dominant voice
and to live a life of gratitude blessing others and reflecting the grace.
My hope
is that you can let it infuse your life. My hope is that you can be a grateful
and gracious giver. It is not easy in this environment to keep on that
voice but it is being done around us. I
was talking with someone recently about philanthropy in this anxious economic
environment. Their home had a family discussion about values and priorities.
They decided to keep their philanthropy steady. If other things needed to be
trimmed back, and they would, but they would continue to support the values
they have that matter.
My hope is that
you can be like that. And make no mistake, I hope you
are generous with your pledge to Christ Church. We need the money, let me be
clear. But I think this is a community that is worthy of your gift. I think of
Christ Church as a catalyst that generates a lot of blessing- people
that lift up and support each other, spiritual values that bless us and our
children, connections with missions locally and around the world that open up
our minds with a vision that is global. We need to support our programs, our
mission giving, our staff,- everything that makes
community go. And I know that for many of you, this is going not going to be
just cream off the top, it is going to look more like a leap of faith. Living
out of your gratitude has a way of working out these things, even difficult
things.
Robert Fulghum attended a conference on the Island of Crete led by
the renowned Greek philosopher and politician Alexander Papaderos.
At the end of the conference with a score of other intellectuals, Papaderos led the closing session. He closed by saying,
“Are there any questions.” There was a silence. Fulghum
raised his hand and asked, “What is the meaning of life?” It brought a round of
laughter from all the intellectuals that were gathered. To their surprise, Papaderos took out his wallet and pulled from it a piece of
mirror that he carried with him everywhere. He had found it as a child after a
German motorcycle had wrecked and he played with it from then on, illuminating
the dark. Papaderos said “As I grew older I learned
that reflecting light is not just a child's game. It is a metaphor for what I
might do with my life. I came to understand that I am not the light, or the
source of the light, but I can reflect the light. The light- truth,
understanding, knowledge- is always there, but it will not shine into the
darkest places unless I reflect it. I have come to understand this as the
meaning of life.” That's not too bad for a philosopher. We theologians would
simply add that truth, understanding, and knowledge, important as they are,
must be delivered with the spiritual disposition of grace, gratitude, and love.
May you be filled with grace, gratitude, and love.
Blessings are all around you. Amen.
[i] From Ray Leblanc Augsburg Sermons 3
(Augsburg Minneapolis: Gospels, Series C, 1994), p. 118.
[ii] Susan
Lee “More Than Zero” from the Houses of Worship article in the Weekend Section,
Wall Street Journal, (November 16th, 2001), p. 17.
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Charles Rush.
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